Tuesday, 31 March 2009

SEXUAL HEALTH CARE:How to Attract Women Sexually - The Secret Methods of the Pick Up Artist

SEXUAL HEALTH CARE:How to Attract Women Sexually - The Secret Methods of the Pick Up Artist:
How to attract women sexually doesn't depend on the face or the body that a man possesses. How to attract women sexually depends on how well the man pushes the right buttons.
This is the philosophy behind the sub-culture that we call the society of pick up artists, or PUAs as they are more fondly called. If you'd see their profiles on the internet, you'd discover that these blokes aren't good looking people at all. In fact, some of them even look like the biggest nerd way back in 5th grade.
Yes, the guy whom everyone thought would never, ever get laid!
But lo and behold, PUAs average 9.7 sexual encounters per week. That's more than one per day.
How do they do it?
Basically, they have mastered how to attract women sexually. They have learned and perfected several routines that help them establish contact, win the attention, and successfully seduce the women they fancy.
Now, there are many methods for picking up women. Any PUA will tell an Average Frustrated Chump - or AFC if you will - that mastering all of these techniques will take time and a lot of practice. Remember, getting a woman to bed is never instantaneous. You don't just wink at a girl and she'll take off her panties for you.
It's a PROCESS of wooing and there are many steps involved. (be sure to get the ultimate guide by clicking the link at the end of this article)
There are many tried and tested approaches when it comes to learning how to attract women sexually. Below is one such method that has worked for renowned PUAs like Neil Strauss and the man known as Mystery.
1. Sarge with a wingman. Sarging is a PUA term that refers to going out for the sole purpose of picking up women. You need a wingman, a fellow PUA you can trust. Your wingman will eventually help you establish first contact with a target and help you isolate the same if need be. Your wingman will also help you get out of sticky situations, like when the target isn't as attractive as you thought her to be and you need a quick way out.
2. Select your target. Easy enough. Find a Super Hot Babe (SHB). Don't ever think she's way out of your league. It's such kind of mentality that makes men fail even before they try.
3. Tease her by showing disinterest. I know what you're thinking - "what? Show disinterest?" This is because SHBs are so used to attention that they actually expect guys to shower them with the same. Stand out! Be different! If she's with a bunch of guys, talk to them about guy things. Let her feel alienated. Turn the tables on her. Soon enough, she'll think of you as a challenge and she'll open up her defenses.
4. Isolate the subject. If she's with people, your wingman should help you separate them from her. The bottom line is that YOU and HER should be left alone. She'll be more vulnerable this way, and there will be less distractions.
5. Establish an emotional connection. Make her feel that you understand her. Make her feel that maybe - just maybe - you guys share a bond that is hard to find. But don't be a sissy in doing this. Don't go all "emo" and don't ever talk like a gal pal. Be strong. Be manly. Still feign a little disinterest. But LISTEN. Deliver follow up questions that will make her know that you're listening to every word she says.
6. Establish a physical connection. When she has become comfortable with you, start touching her - subtly at first. Press her hand to emphasize a point. Caress her arm to reassure her when she needs reassurance. Nudge her leg with yours when you both share a laugh. If she doesn't resist, intensify your advances. Women love being touched - or at least they love being touched by people they are fond of. If you manage to establish an emotional connection with her, this part should be easy.

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